Today, I want to discuss the profound impact of forgiveness on my life. If we were to reflect on the numerous occasions where we’ve felt wronged, it’s likely that each of us could recount numerous instances. Just the mention of certain names or situations used to evoke a visceral reaction in me. How could I possibly release the grip of resentment when the wrongdoing felt so deep? There were moments when thoughts of revenge consumed me entirely, fixating my mind on individuals or groups who had wronged me. Despite pleading with God for forgiveness, I struggled to truly let go of my grievances. Even now, I occasionally grapple with this internal conflict, but I recognize that God calls upon me to relinquish my resentment and embrace forgiveness.
I’ve come to realize that harboring unforgiveness only breeds anger within me. This realization hit me profoundly when I encountered Matthew 6:14-15:
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your father will not forgive your sins.”
This passage struck a chord within me. Could it be true that if I fail to forgive, God will withhold His forgiveness from me? Despite my initial resistance, I couldn’t deny the weight of unforgiveness I carried in my heart. It manifested as physical pain and stress, urging me to seek solace in prayer and extend forgiveness to those who had wronged me. I pleaded with God to forgive me for harboring such deep-seated resentment.
I yearn for God to work through me, but I’ve come to understand that forgiveness must precede any meaningful purpose in my life. Forgiveness is not always easy. It requires humility, patience, and a willingness to let go of resentment and anger. Yet, it is through the practice of forgiveness that we experience true freedom and liberation from the burdens of the past. When we forgive others, we release ourselves from the chains of bitterness and resentment, allowing God to work in and through us in profound and meaningful ways.
As Christians, we are called to emulate the example of Jesus in our own lives, extending forgiveness to others as we have been forgiven by God. Through forgiveness, we experience healing and reconciliation – both with God and with people we encounter in our daily lives. It is through the process of forgiveness that we open our hearts to the work of the Holy Spirit, allowing God’s love to flow freely through us.
If you’re reading this, I implore you to choose forgiveness. Remember, Jesus sacrificed Himself on the cross for each of us, intimately understanding our pain. He awaits us with open arms, urging us to release our burdens and embrace forgiveness. By embracing forgiveness, we align ourselves with the teachings and example of Jesus Christ, allowing God’s love to work through us in profound and meaningful ways. As we continue to follow Christ, always remember the power of forgiveness and its ability to heal, restore, and reconcile.
Choose forgiveness today.
Jason Fay is a devoted Christian writer, musician, and blogger residing in the Scenic state of West Virginia alongside his cherished wife and three beautiful daughters. With a heart ablaze for the Gospel and a passion for inspiring others in their journey of faith, Jason pours his creativity and conviction into crafting impactful devotionals, insightful blog posts, and soul-stirring Christian music.
Armed with a Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration, Jason brings a unique blend of business acumen and spiritual insight to his work, striving to bridge the gap between everyday life and eternal truths. His writings reflect a deep commitment to sharing the transformative power of God’s love and grace, offering encouragement, guidance, and hope to all who seek to deepen their relationship with Christ.
In addition to his writing and music endeavors, Jason is an active member of Arise Ministries, where he finds community, support, and opportunities to serve alongside fellow believers. Through his involvement with Arise Ministries, Jason continues to grow in his faith and extend the love of Christ to those in need. Whether through the gentle melodies of his music, the thought-provoking words of his blog, or the profound reflections found in his devotionals, Jason Fay endeavors to uplift and edify individuals on their spiritual journey, pointing them towards the boundless joy and fulfillment found in a life surrendered to Jesus Christ. Join him on this journey of faith as together, we grow in grace and embrace the abundant life that God has promised.
During intercessors prayer on 12/7/23 I heard this dialog in my spirit…
(Conversation between the Holy Spirit and me):
Me: “I’ve been crying in the night lord.”
Holy Spirit (HS): “Don’t you see joy comes in the morning?”
Me: “I just want to hear your voice.”
HS: “Here is the way walk there in.”
Me: “I feel so insignificant.”
HS: “My eye is on the sparrow so know I care for you.”
Me: “In the middle of my trials wondering will this ever end?”
HS: “This too shall pass, I will be with you.”
Me: “It feels like I want to quit.”
HS: “No, finish your race strong.”
Me: “Lord I’ve been waiting so long to see what I’m believing for.”
HS: “When the time is right I the lord will make it happen.”
Me: “I’m tired.”
HS: “Well I invite you to give me your burdens, come under my wings and I will give you renewed strength.”
Me: “Does what I do even matter?”
HS: “Well I have a plan and purpose for your life.”
Me: “Knowing you’re coming soon why does anything worldly even matter?”
HS: “Because I want you to occupy until I come and be about my Fathers business.”
Dee Farley is a mighty, sold-out warrior for Christ. She is a leader in her local church, a trusted friend, mom/grandma, and companion to any and everybody. She ministers everywhere she goes and prays for all who are willing. She has gone through the war, but continues to fight the good fight every day.
And to the angel of the church in Philadelphia write; These things saith he that is holy, he that is true, he that hath the key of David, he that openeth, and no man shutteth; and shutteth, and no man openeth; I know thy works; behold, I have set before thee an open door, and no man can shut it: for thou hast a little strength, and hast kept my word, and hast not denied my name (Revelation 3:7-8).
Revelation chapter three records the words of Jesus spoken to the Apostle John as a message to each of the seven churches of Asia. These were important churches during the era of early Christianity. Revelation 3:8 is addressing the church in Philadelphia- which was apparently one of the better churches of the seven.
Notice that Jesus said there was an open door set before them that no man was able to shut. What was this open door? It was a door of opportunity to grow in the knowledge of God, to prosper spiritually and to minister to those who did not know Jesus as Savior. That same door is open to the church- God’s people- today. However, we must take into account the characteristics we need in order to have the open door made available to us. The Lord knew the works of the people in the church in Philadelphia. He knows our works also.
First of all, we need just a little strength. In II Corinthians 12:9, the Lord said these words to the Apostle Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Did you catch that? When we are weak, God is strongest in our lives! Surely we can echo the words of Paul in the following verse:
Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then am I strong (II Corinthians 12:10).
Secondly, we must keep His Word. God’s Word is our road map as we travel through life. God’s Word is our battle plan as we face the enemy of our souls. In John 14:15, Jesus said, “If you love me; keep my commandments.” The Bible teaches us what is right and what is wrong. We need- not just a head knowledge- but a heart knowledge of God’s Word so we can keep His commandments. The Psalmist said it well: “Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You.” (Psalm 119:11)
Finally, we must never deny His name. No matter what it costs us, we can never be ashamed of our Savior. Again, we refer to the words of Jesus:
“Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven. But whoever denies me before men, him I will also deny before My Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 10:32-33)
Think about it. God has an open door for me. He has an open door for you. I want to be able to walk right through it. What about you?
Dave Snyder is an Ordained Bishop with the Church of God – Cleveland, Tennessee. Before entering the ministry on a full-time basis, he was a school teacher. He also coached middle school basketball for eight years.
Dave and his wife, Sara, have two children — Craig and Karen. They also have one ten year old granddaughter — Breanna.
Dave and Sara pastored in West Virginia for thirty-six years. Sara is now retired from the banking industry, and Dave is retired from pastoring. However, Dave currently serves as prison Chaplain for the West Virginia Division of Corrections and Rehabilitation.
Writing essays, articles, and devotionals is a real passion for Dave. He also enjoys playing musical instruments and singing.
“Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.” – 2 Timothy 2:22-24
Devotional:
In this chapter from 2 Timothy, the Apostle Paul offers enduring wisdom to Timothy, his brother in the Lord, and, by implication, all Christians. These verses act as a guide, leading us through the often stormy waters of life, reminding us of the qualities we should pursue and the traps we should avoid.
“Flee the evil desires of youth.” Youth is generally associated with passion and excitement, but it may also be a period of vulnerability to temptations and distractions. In 2 Timothy Chapter 2 Paul encourages us to shun the enticement of wicked impulses, knowing that giving in to them could lead us astray from the path of righteousness.
Paul focuses our attention on what we should pursue: righteousness, faith, love, and peace. These virtues are not passive but take deliberate effort and dedication. Righteousness asks us to live in accordance with God’s rules, faith motivates us to believe in His promises, love drives us to generously serve others, and peace directs us toward harmony and reconciliation.
Furthermore, Paul highlights the significance of fellowship in our spiritual path. He urges us to pursue these characteristics alongside other Christians who want to glorify God with pure hearts. Support, encouragement, and accountability are all important components of spiritual growth and dedication in the church.
Paul also advises against engaging in “foolish and stupid arguments” that only lead to conflict. In a society full of opposing viewpoints and beliefs, it is easy to become involved in pointless discussions. Instead of wasting time and energy on divisive issues, let us focus on establishing unity and understanding based on the truth of God’s Word.
Paul tells us of the conduct appropriate for a servant of the Lord. We are supposed to be kind, patient, and gracious in our relationships with others. A bitter mood only undermines our witness and the message of Christ’s love. As Christ’s ambassadors, we should resemble His character and live out His words in all we do.
As we reflect on these verses, let us pray about how we might apply these eternal truths to our life. Let us continue to resist sin, pursue righteousness with firm determination, seek the companionship of fellow Christians, avoid unproductive conflicts, and exemplify our Lord Jesus Christ’s love and grace in all aspects of our life.
Prayer:
Dear Lord,
As I bow before You in prayer, I am overwhelmed by Your presence, knowing that You are kind and gracious to me right now. Lord, I realize and understand that there will be moments when I fail and fall. However, in this time, I lift my heart to You and express my sincere desire to follow righteousness.
Lord, give me the strength to run from the negative impulses that attempt to entangle me. Fill me with steadfast faith so that I can believe in Your promises and openly walk in Your truth. Shower me with Your endless affection so that I might love others the way You have loved me, selflessly and unconditionally. Immerse me in Your perfect peace, which exceeds all understanding, and preserve my heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Lord, I ask for a pure heart—one completely committed to You, free of the blemishes of sin and selfishness. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and revive my soul. Give me thoughts, words, and deeds that reflect Your kindness and bring honor to Your name.
Lord, I surrender myself in Your hands, asking that You shape me into the person You want me to be. Shape me into an honorable vessel suitable for Your use and the service of Your kingdom. Help me to follow Your will, guided by Your Holy Spirit every step of the way.
Thank you Lord for your unfailing love. In Jesus’ name I pray,
Amen
Jason Fay is a devoted Christian writer, musician, and blogger residing in the Scenic state of West Virginia alongside his cherished wife and three beautiful daughters. With a heart ablaze for the Gospel and a passion for inspiring others in their journey of faith, Jason pours his creativity and conviction into crafting impactful devotionals, insightful blog posts, and soul-stirring Christian music.
Armed with a Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration, Jason brings a unique blend of business acumen and spiritual insight to his work, striving to bridge the gap between everyday life and eternal truths. His writings reflect a deep commitment to sharing the transformative power of God’s love and grace, offering encouragement, guidance, and hope to all who seek to deepen their relationship with Christ.
In addition to his writing and music endeavors, Jason is an active member of Arise Ministries, where he finds community, support, and opportunities to serve alongside fellow believers. Through his involvement with Arise Ministries, Jason continues to grow in his faith and extend the love of Christ to those in need. Whether through the gentle melodies of his music, the thought-provoking words of his blog, or the profound reflections found in his devotionals, Jason Fay endeavors to uplift and edify individuals on their spiritual journey, pointing them towards the boundless joy and fulfillment found in a life surrendered to Jesus Christ. Join him on this journey of faith as together, we grow in grace and embrace the abundant life that God has promised.
‘I am the Lord, and I do not change. And so you, the descendants of Jacob, are not yet completely lost.’ Malachi 3.6 GNBDC
‘Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and for ever.’ Hebrews 13.8 GNBDC
Holy Spirit, guide my fingers because You have a chaos of words fluttering about in my mind this morning. Help me to make sense of the words that you are wanting me to share. Thank you and amen.
In today’s times, Christians are so adamant to spread the message that Jesus loves everyone, that over time that message has sadly become one that is being misconstrued to check everyone’s boxes, and to allow everyone’s behaviors to go “as is”. Somewhere along the lines the terms, “love” and “acceptance” have become intertwined, and it seems that many have forgotten that to love doesn’t just (only) mean to cater too or accept a person and/or their behavior(s). And it’s unfortunate at how many people within the church purposely focus on the character traits portrayed of Jesus (kind, loving, accepting) while forgoing and seemingly forgetting that God while being a loving and caring one, was notorious for being quick tempered, jealous, even vengeful at times. I mean how can we forget that while we all patiently wait for Jesus to return to us, it’s not exactly on good terms or why He’s meant to be coming back? If we were to love everyone just as they are, why would there need to be a revival, or why would God be coming back to punish those who have sinned (again) against Him?
A few things that are consistently preached/taught are that God is the same today that He was yesterday, that He loves us and we are to love Him with all of our heart, soul, mind and body. We call Him our Father, our Abba because He does love and provide for us in a way that only a good Father would. But yet we cringe at the thought of being reprimanded by Him? Odd.
‘He who withholds the rod [of discipline] hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines and trains him diligently and appropriately [with wisdom and love].’ Proverbs 13.24 AMP
We need to look deeper into the meaning and context of the word “love”. If we all were to be honest, and if we took a good, hard and honest look around us, we could plainly see that the world’s mindset circling around the true meaning of love has shifted and changed greatly over the years. It truly and honestly does not mean what it once did, nor does it hold the value or importance that it once held. Love is more than just a word that we mutter, it’s a verb. An action that we must actively make, and it can take on many forms. And again, somewhere along the lines we have become so conditioned within the church and Christian community to believe and pass on that “to love like Jesus” means that we not only have to accept everyone and everything, but we also must not correct or judge another for the behaviors that they continue to partake in. I often wonder how often God sits in Heaven, scratching His beautiful head saying, “I never said that!”
If we were to sit and truly reflect on what the Word teaches us through the Gospel, and not eliminate the uncomfortable parts to make ourselves feel better, I think we could agree that Jesus’ and God’s love both were extended in ways that encompassed a deeper meaning than just “acceptance”. Honestly, I think it was most oftentimes portrayed as anything but acceptance, but we have somehow rewritten it to be that way. Just because Jesus sat with the sinners doesn’t mean He accepted them. And just because God chose the sinner doesn’t mean He accepted them. They chose them knowing that there was an inner being that would succumb to the Spirit and become who they were meant to be.
At other times their love was shown as being brotherly, other times fatherly, and other times as their leader/Rabbi/pastor. And sometimes it was just portrayed as a friendly love being shown. There were characteristic trademarks of each kind through each story within the Bible and only a fool would ignore them or try to lump them as a whole one summary kind of love.
For the sake of this though, we are going to focus on what it would be to love how Jesus had loved us. And to start, I believe that if we were to truly love like Jesus loved (us), there is a whole slew of us that would need to learn the real meaning of “sacrifice”. Because I promise you it doesn’t mean taking an hour and a half out every Sunday for church and that’s it. Jesus is and always will be the reigning example on what sacrifice in the name of love would look like.
‘No one has greater love [nor stronger commitment] than to lay down his own life for his friends.’ John 15.13AMP
Love that was displayed from Jesus showed more depth and held more intent and was more direct. There was purpose behind the acts of the love that He performed. Each held a lesson, a step in His journey, in His disciples’ journeys and in the history of all mankind. It was the love of Jesus that offered redemption for each of us, and if only we could grasp just how deep that love runs still to this very day. Maybe then people would take this whole Jesus business a little more serious?
If we were to truly love like Jesus, we would have to learn to love like Him. Because He loved in a way that was unbridled and unselfish. He loved in ways that the majority would struggle with today because it takes putting others ahead of your own self. It was always about the greater picture and the greater good for Him. (Romans 8.28)
He loved enough to teach, to minister, to raise up disciples and to spread the Gospel and the Word of His Father so that we all could be rescued and saved. He knew the persecution He would face, but He painstakingly and lovingly taught it anyway so that everyone could receive the blessings from Him doing so.
He loved enough to correct and stand up to those who were doing wrong, knowing full well what it was going to lead too. He flipped those tables and cleared those rooms out of love and respect to His Father and because He loved us enough to want to not only set a better example, but for it to be done in a better way.
He loved enough to persevere and push through, when I am positive that there had to have been days it would have been easier to just succumb to the hardships of His life, to the temptation of sin and His life to have gone another way.
He loved enough to wait, patiently, for when the time was right and for when His time was now, and for when He was called forth by His Father. “All in His perfect timing.”
He loved enough to exhibit His own faith, His own triumphs, His own miracles and His own overcoming of trials so that others could see what was pure and acceptable and what awaited in the Heavenlies for them, too.
He loved enough to continue standing tall while carrying the burdens of all the generations to come just so that we never had to.
His love was all encompassing and went to whatever lengths He felt it needed to go to in order to win over souls and bring people into His Father’s Kingdom. It went deeper than rebuking demons and facing hell on earth. It was rebuking the things that plague His people every day, in their everyday lives. He flipped tables and stood up to the pharisees and scribes back then, could you honestly imagine how busy He would be within our churches today?
Yes, God intends for us to love one another through uplifting and accepting, but that is not where love ends but only begins. If there is never any correction, then where does the authenticity of His Word come through? Where did we connive this watered-down version of the Truth that is so blatantly ignorant of what was written in red? I don’t believe He intended the gentle parenting version of love when He wrote of it.
More and more each day we are seeing the deconstruction of the intention of each word within His Word as people pick and choose what they want them to mean. And sadly, too many are allowing this deconstruction to take place because honestly it suits their fancy as well. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but He doesn’t care how many degrees, how many years or books you’ve studied or how many followers you may have, His Word endures forever. (1 Peter 1.25)
‘In the beginning the Word already existed; the Word was with God, and the Word was God. From the very beginning the Word was with God. Through him God made all things; not one thing in all creation was made without him. The Word was the source of life, and this life brought light to humanity. The light shines in the darkness has never put it out.’ John 1.1-5 GNBDC
‘For those who are according to the flesh set their mind on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
However, you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. But if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him. If Christ is in you, though the body is dead because of sin, yet the spirit is alive because of righteousness.’ Romans 8.5-10 NASB
Billie is a 40-something stay-at-home momma of five beautiful children and Grammy to three grandchildren. When not wrangling the littles, she babysits for her two adult children. You will find her gardening, canning, baking, and making the most delicious meals for her family. Billie is a multitasker juggling a team of miniature tyrants, a cat, a snake, two dogs, two rats, and nine chickens. In her spare time, she enjoys reading and studying her bible. Her passion is sharing the gospel through her writing! So, whether she’s feeding your body with delicious meals or feeding your soul through her writing, join Billie as she takes you on a journey providing you with “Food for Thought.”
In our busy chaotic lives, we can often find ourselves seeking redemption at some point. There are times where I long for a sense of restoration, a renewing of my spirit, and cleansing of my soul. As I strive for all of these things in my life, I look for hope which is found in Ephesians 1:7. This verse reminds me of the ultimate source of redemption: the blood of Jesus.
Ephesians 1:7 says, “In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace.” The tremendous depth of God’s love and the life-changing effect of His grace are shown in this passage, which captures the root of the gospel message.
Fundamentally, redemption is a wonderfully arranged exchange, created by God. A release from captivity is what it is. We were imprisoned by sin in our human state, subject to its devastating hold. However, we have been saved by the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. His blood was shed on our behalf, acting as the ransom to release us from the shackles of sin and restore our relationship with God.
It is impossible to overestimate the importance of Christ’s blood. It is the core of our salvation, not just a symbol or a ceremonial element. We are pardoned and our sins are completely washed away by the blood of Jesus. We are no longer constrained by guilt and shame or defined by our previous transgressions. We are cleansed, renewed, and given a new beginning by His blood.
That redemption, however, is a gift of God’s love and is neither earned nor merited. We are redeemed “in accordance with the riches of God’s grace,” as Ephesians 1:7 tells us. The grace of God is limitless and above our comprehension. It is abundant, extravagant, and freely offered to everyone who asks for it. Our salvation is entirely dependent on God’s undeserved favor; it is not based on our own merits or efforts.
We are expected to respond with thankfulness and obedience as the beneficiaries of such remarkable generosity. We are called to live holy, righteous, and loving lives that are worthy of the salvation we have received. As we continue to change and become more like Christ, our redemption is not just a one-time thing, it is a continuous process.
Last but not least, Ephesians 1:7 provides a powerful reminder of the breadth and depth of God’s love. Don’t ever forget that we have been redeemed, pardoned, and set free by the precious blood of Jesus Christ. Our lives should serve as a living example of the life-changing impact of God’s grace, and it is my hope that we never cease to be amazed by the miracle of our redemption. Let the truth of Ephesians 1:7 give us hope. The understanding that we have been redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ gives us hope and strength no matter what we may be going through. No sin is too large or an obstacle too big for the power of His grace to overcome. Let us cling to the knowledge that our Heavenly Father loves, forgives, and cherishes us. You have been redeemed by his blood!
Jason Fay is a devoted Christian writer, musician, and blogger residing in the Scenic state of West Virginia alongside his cherished wife and three beautiful daughters. With a heart ablaze for the Gospel and a passion for inspiring others in their journey of faith, Jason pours his creativity and conviction into crafting impactful devotionals, insightful blog posts, and soul-stirring Christian music.
Armed with a Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration, Jason brings a unique blend of business acumen and spiritual insight to his work, striving to bridge the gap between everyday life and eternal truths. His writings reflect a deep commitment to sharing the transformative power of God’s love and grace, offering encouragement, guidance, and hope to all who seek to deepen their relationship with Christ.
In addition to his writing and music endeavors, Jason is an active member of Arise Ministries, where he finds community, support, and opportunities to serve alongside fellow believers. Through his involvement with Arise Ministries, Jason continues to grow in his faith and extend the love of Christ to those in need. Whether through the gentle melodies of his music, the thought-provoking words of his blog, or the profound reflections found in his devotionals, Jason Fay endeavors to uplift and edify individuals on their spiritual journey, pointing them towards the boundless joy and fulfillment found in a life surrendered to Jesus Christ. Join him on this journey of faith as together, we grow in grace and embrace the abundant life that God has promised.
14 Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:14-16
Rejection… something all of us will go through in our lifetime. I am no stranger to this myself. In fact, I have felt rejection from a young age. I would get close with friends and adore them with all my heart, then for some unknown reason, it would just seem they stopped caring and would fall away from our friendship. It would hurt me so deeply and they wouldn’t even seem bothered.
I never understood why this would happen until recently. It can hurt when those we think care about us and will show up for us… don’t. It hurts when people receive freely from us but when it’s time for them to show up on our behalf, they are nowhere to be found. But, we are not a people without a hope or a Savior who doesn’t understand us. In fact, Jesus went through the worst rejection and persecution. As the scripture states above, He understands and empathizes with us. He was perfect and yet rejected by so many. He was abandoned in His most vulnerable state.
It hurts deeply when those we think care about us don’t show up. But we are not a people without a God who doesn’t understand our pain. So, the next time you’re hurting from being rejected or misunderstood, go straight to Jesus who understands what it’s like. Cry out to Him, be honest with Him, and let Him love on you- let Him heal those wounds.
One thing I’ve had to learn, is that quality is better than quantity. I was always able to make friends, but many times they weren’t true friends. They only wanted to be there during the fun times or the easy times. After what felt like a long season of loneliness and wilderness, the Lord brought me the most amazing, Godly friends I could ever ask for. He truly exceeded my expectations. I may not have a ton of friends, but the ones I do have would show up during war for me. They storm heaven on my behalf, they would go without sleep to pray for me and my family. They are the real deal.
So although I still grieve my old friendships at times, I remind myself that the reason they didn’t work out was probably for my protection. Not everyone can go with you to your next. Those not living for Christ cannot accompany you into your promotion. They can’t go higher in the Spirit if they are not of the Spirit. You need people who can support you in Christ and will be there for you when it counts. It felt like a long, painful journey to get here… but I can promise you that if you’re in the waiting for those right friends, don’t give up hope because at just the right time the Lord will bring them!!! And they will be better than you could have dreamed! Hold fast and let the Father heal your wounds. Wait patiently and let Him work on you so that you can adequately sustain those upcoming relationships.
And remember, He was rejected first and the world will continue to reject you because it doesn’t understand the things of God. But remember, they aren’t rejecting you- they are rejecting Christ in you, and there will be a reward awaiting you for that. Your tribe is coming!!!
Hannah Smith, author of the Moving Mountains blog, is a woman who feels she has experienced a lot of life in her 33 years.
At 19 years old, Hannah joined the Army. After moving around the country, getting a divorce and losing what seemed like everything, she landed back where God wanted her in Ohio, even though she fought the whole way. She is now a devoted follower of Christ and seeks the Lord with all she’s got.
Hannah is married and a RN, but works as a stay-at-home mom to her 3 children per instruction from the Lord.
She loves to hike, travel, drink coffee, and talk about Jesus. Hannah also has a heart to create a home and life in which she can be a safe place for the hurting and the broken. Her biggest piece of advice would be to never tell the Lord you will never do something- because He will most likely then ask you to do that very thing, LOL!
To her readers, Hannah says, “I believe that God set every single one of you reading this apart, for such a time as this. It is my hope and prayer that God would use the words I say to change your life in a way you and I never thought possible!”
And so it is written, The first Adam was made a living soul; the last Adam was made a quickening spirit (I Corinthians 15:45).
The first Adam and the last Adam are mentioned together in this verse. The first Adam is described as a living soul. The second Adam- Jesus- is described as a quickening spirit.
As we know, the first Adam failed to obey God. His failure brought condemnation because of sin, death and judgment into the world.
Jesus- on the other hand- obeyed God completely. His obedience led to death on the cross and brought good things to mankind- making it possible for the negative things to be reversed. The following verses show us the contrast between the first Adam and the second Adam- Jesus Christ:
But the free gift is not like the offense. For if by one man’s offense many died, much more the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abounded to many. And the gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned. For the judgment which came from one offense resulted in condemnation, but the free gift which came from many offenses resulted in justification. For if by the one man’s offense death reigned through the one, much more those who receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ (Romans 5:15-18).
The first Adam’s sin brought condemnation, judgment and death into the world- specifically to mankind. One offense brought utter chaos. Jesus shouldered all the offenses (sins) of the whole world so that order could be brought to the lives of all who would accept the free gift of salvation. Jesus was- and is- the quickening spirit that resurrected our hope and brought to each of us the opportunity to experience eternal life.
The full picture of God’s grace was brought into focus through Jesus Christ. John 1:14 says, “And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.” Our Savior proved to us that God really does love us and wants us to make it.
We may ask the question, “If Adam failed, how are we going to succeed?” The answer is just as Jesus died to provide forgiveness of sins, He lives to help us live a life of obedience to God. In fact, Jesus is everything we need to be successful. I Corinthians 1:30 says this plainly: “But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God- and righteousness and sanctification and redemption.”
Aren’t you glad Jesus came to restore everything that was lost and destroyed through Adam’s disobedience? All we have to do is give our lives to Him and trust Him. He will give us all the help we need.
Dave Snyder is an Ordained Bishop with the Church of God – Cleveland, Tennessee. Before entering the ministry on a full-time basis, he was a school teacher. He also coached middle school basketball for eight years.
Dave and his wife, Sara, have two children — Craig and Karen. They also have one ten year old granddaughter — Breanna.
Dave and Sara pastored in West Virginia for thirty-six years. Sara is now retired from the banking industry, and Dave is retired from pastoring. However, Dave currently serves as prison Chaplain for the West Virginia Division of Corrections and Rehabilitation.
Writing essays, articles, and devotionals is a real passion for Dave. He also enjoys playing musical instruments and singing.
My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. – John 15:12-13
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. – Romans 12:9-10
My question to you today is this: do you love? And I mean REALLY love the way Christ instructs us to in the Word. Many will probably say, “Yes I love my neighbor and I love God the most.” But, according to the scripture above, do you?
Have you forgiven someone but deep down you’re keeping record of their wrongs in the name of boundaries? Have you justified pushing someone away because of their past actions? I do not write this because I am perfect or have mastered this area- I write this because I know I am guilty and need the Lord to purify me each day in this area. Love is not easy. Human love may be, but true, biblical love isn’t. Because if you’ll look at the verses above, most of us are falling short in this area.
Love is a living sacrifice. It puts others above self. This means loving our enemy just as much as our favorite person. And i’m talking about that 1 Corinthians type of love. I won’t draw this out but I want you to truly let the Lord search and convict you of areas you really aren’t loving others in.
But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. – Luke 6:35
How many of us are doing good to our enemies? I leave you with that question today. Because the Lord knows it’s easy to love those who love us, but how well are we loving those who are our enemy? I believe that’s the true measuring stick of how greatly we are loving like Jesus. Are we really loving our Judas? Because Jesus did and did it so well that others didn’t know what Judas would do.
So you may be the most anointed speaker, worship leader, friend, or coworker… but, do you love? Because in the end, that’s all that will matter.
Lord, forgive us and help us to truly be like you in how we love.
Hannah Smith, author of the Moving Mountains blog, is a woman who feels she has experienced a lot of life in her 33 years.
At 19 years old, Hannah joined the Army. After moving around the country, getting a divorce and losing what seemed like everything, she landed back where God wanted her in Ohio, even though she fought the whole way. She is now a devoted follower of Christ and seeks the Lord with all she’s got.
Hannah is married and a RN, but works as a stay-at-home mom to her 3 children per instruction from the Lord.
She loves to hike, travel, drink coffee, and talk about Jesus. Hannah also has a heart to create a home and life in which she can be a safe place for the hurting and the broken. Her biggest piece of advice would be to never tell the Lord you will never do something- because He will most likely then ask you to do that very thing, LOL!
To her readers, Hannah says, “I believe that God set every single one of you reading this apart, for such a time as this. It is my hope and prayer that God would use the words I say to change your life in a way you and I never thought possible!”
I keep having visions of large ships. My mind instantly labels them as being warships, but then I hear, “Are you sure they’re warships?”
Well Lord, they sure look like them, but if you’re asking me if I’m sure if they are, I’m guessing that they’re not. So, Father, if they’re not warships, what are they?
He finally answered me today, thank goodness, because I was starting to think I was just flat out going bonkers because they clearly resembled mighty, big, old and sometimes scary, warships. I had just finished up with my worship and prayer time when this thought hit me so clearly that there was absolutely no denying where it came from…
“What is the difference between a warship and a battleship, Billie?”
Off to Google we went and I’m telling you that there are times that I am so thankful how He will quicken words for me. While there is a whole slew of differences, I am only going to share the parts that came to life and made me stop and go, “Ooohh, that makes sense Father!”
A warship is a type of naval vessel that is designed for combat. The example that stood out the most was the destroyer as they are swift and versatile ships that are used for anti-submarine warfare, escort duties and missile defense. Another was the aircraft carrier with them being an enormous floating airbase that deploys and supports fighter jets and helicopters, etc..
Now a battleship is a specific type of warship that is heavily armored and equipped with large weaponry. They have thick armor to withstand enemy fire, tend to bring out the big guns and carry the larger caliber weapons that are capable of devastating firepower. Battleships tend to operate on the open oceans, being the one to engage other warships.
Unfortunately, battleships have largely become obsolete due to advancements in weaponry technology and the rise of aircraft carriers. While battleships are warships, not all warships are battleships.
We are all called to suit up in the full armor of God every day so that we can take our stand against the devil’s schemes, and we are reminded that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against powers, against world rulers of this darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavens (Ephesians 6.11-12 NET). For many of us this also means that we are to suit up to take on the roles of being prayer warriors, intercessors, and to be a Warrior of God.
“God’s divine power has given us everything we need to live a truly religious life through our knowledge of the one who called us to share in his own glory and goodness. In this way he has given us the very great and precious gifts he promised, so that by means of these gifts you may escape from the destructive lust that is in the world, and may come to share the divine nature.” (2 Peter 1.3-4 GNBDC)
I know that for many of us, we have received the image the of a large “warship” and have felt called to “war” for not only our families, churches, schools and communities, but our state and our country. Many of us feel that there are big things brewing that need our time and attention (prayers, intercession, and decrees). Essentially, we ARE those warships representing His Kingdom.
So why the need to differentiate between a warship and a battleship? What do I feel He was telling me? I believe He is preparing us to elevate, to show us that He is going to require us to become more “battle” ready. We need to be thicker skinned (thicker armor to withstand the blasphemy, the lies and sinful behaviors, aka the enemy fire), heavily armed with all of the gifts of the Spirit that He has blessed us with, and it’s time that we pull out the big guns: the heavy artillery of His Word, engaging other warships creating a brigade that is unstoppable, thus operating in a manner that we for so long have had to suppress and withhold from the public eye. Yes, He desires battleships for this season, those that are willing to carry and defend and go to all lengths to see His warriors safely through what lies ahead… Shew!
“For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses.” 2 Corinthians 10.3-4 NASB
While researching for this I was led to Revelation 18 and 19 and both were powerful to read!
‘And he shouted with a mighty voice, She is fallen! Mighty Babylon is fallen! She has become a resort and dwelling place for demons, a dungeon haunted by every loathsome spirit, an abode for every filthy and detestable bird. For all nations have drunk the wine of her passionate unchastity, and the rulers and leaders of the earth have joined with her in committing fornication (idolatry), and the businessmen of the earth have become rich with the wealth of her excessive luxury and wantonness. I then heard another voice from heaven saying, Come out from her, my people, so that you may not share in her sins, neither participate in her plagues. For her iniquities (her crimes and transgressions) are piled up as high as heaven, and God has remembered her wickedness and [her] crimes [and calls them up for settlement]. Repay to her what she herself has paid [to others] and double [her doom] in accordance with what she has done. Mix a double portion for her in the cup she mixed [for others]. To the degree that she glorified herself and reveled in her wantonness [living deliciously and luxuriously], to that measure impose on her torment and anguish and tears and mourning. Since in her heart she boasts, I am not a widow; as a queen [on a throne] I sit, and I shall never see suffering or experience sorrow— So shall her plagues (afflictions, calamities) come thick upon her in a single day, pestilence and anguish and sorrow and famine; and she shall be utterly consumed (burned up with fire), for mighty is the Lord God Who judges her. And the rulers and leaders of the earth who joined her in her immorality (idolatry) and luxuriated with her will weep and beat their breasts and lament over her when they see the smoke of her conflagration. They will stand a long way off, in terror of her torment, and they will cry, Woe and alas, the great city, the mighty city, Babylon! In one single hour how your doom (judgment) has overtaken you! And earth’s businessmen will weep and grieve over her because no one buys their freight (cargo) any more. (18. 2-11 AMPC)
Because in one [single] hour all the vast wealth has been destroyed (wiped out). And all ship captains and pilots, navigators and all who live by seafaring, the crews and all who ply their trade on the sea, stood a long way off, And exclaimed as they watched the smoke of her burning, What city could be compared to the great city! And they threw dust on their heads as they wept and grieved, exclaiming, Woe and alas, for the great city, where all who had ships on the sea grew rich [through her extravagance] from her great wealth! In one single hour she has been destroyed and has become a desert! Rejoice (celebrate) over her, O heaven! O saints (people of God) and apostles and prophets, because God has executed vengeance for you upon her! (18.17-20 AMPC)
And never again shall the light of a lamp shine in you, and the voice of bridegroom and bride shall never be heard in you again; for your businessmen were the great and prominent men of the earth, and by your magic spells and poisonous charm all nations were led astray (seduced and deluded). And in her was found the blood of prophets and of saints, and of all those who have been slain (slaughtered) on earth. (18.23-24 AMPC)’
And I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse, and He who sat on it is called Faithful and True, and in righteousness He judges and wages war. His eyes are a flame of fire, and on His head are many diadems; and He has a name written on Him which no one knows except Himself. He is clothed with a robe dipped in blood, and His name is called The Word of God. And the armies which are in heaven, clothed in fine linen, white and clean, were following Him on white horses. From His mouth comes a sharp sword, so that with it He may strike down the nations, and He will [d]rule them with a rod of iron; and He treads the [e]wine press of the fierce wrath of God, the Almighty.And on His robe and on His thigh He has a name written, “KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS.” (19.11-16 NASB)
Modern day Christianity has become so caught up in teaching that God is all accepting, and we present Him as being soft, that we forget that it’s those behaviors that have helped contribute to Him having to become the God that is represented in both of those passages. Throughout history it has been our lack of representing Him in His complete authority and capacity that has helped created this false bravado. In short, we as His Ekklesia have watered Him down so much time and time again, only praising and pushing the crowd-pleasing virtues that the fear of God is nonexistent. How could we ever expect anyone to take heed to the warnings and prophecies that we all take to heart, when blasphemy started within so many moons ago?
The Lord isn’t looking for warships that are going to return to safe harbors when the battle gets fierce. Nor is He looking for the ones that only function from safe confines, or on their own terms. He is looking for those willing to step into fierce battleships, knowing that so many, including many of their own, are going to throw a plethora of assault and persecution their way. He is looking for those that are battle worthy shown via obedience and steadfastness in Him, that are heavily armored with His Word, that fear not because they stand firm in Him and those that are willing to take on the burdens of others during the war that lies ahead.
“The Lord goes out to fight like a warrior; he is ready and eager to battle. He gives a war cry, a battle shout; he shows his power against his enemies. God says, “For a long time I kept silent; I did not answer my people, but now the time to act has come I cry out like a woman in labor… It was the Lord himself against whom we sinned! We would not live as he wanted us to live or obey the teachings he gave us. So he made us feel the force of his anger and suffer the violence of war. Like fire his anger burned throughout Israel, but we never knew that was happening; we learnt from it nothing at all.” (Isaiah 42.13-14, 24-25GNBDC)
Billie is a 40-something stay-at-home momma of five beautiful children and Grammy to three grandchildren. When not wrangling the littles, she babysits for her two adult children. You will find her gardening, canning, baking, and making the most delicious meals for her family. Billie is a multitasker juggling a team of miniature tyrants, a cat, a snake, two dogs, two rats, and nine chickens. In her spare time, she enjoys reading and studying her bible. Her passion is sharing the gospel through her writing! So, whether she’s feeding your body with delicious meals or feeding your soul through her writing, join Billie as she takes you on a journey providing you with “Food for Thought.”
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